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Michael Witous

Michael Witous

Thursday, May 7th, 1953 - Sunday, March 15th, 2020
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John Michael Witous Obituary

Michael was born May 7, 1953 in Chicago, Illinois to John E. Witous and Joanne M. Witous (née McConkey) who met at Northwestern University and married in 1951. Shortly after, the family moved to Kansas City, Missouri where Mike attended elementary and part of junior high school. There he enjoyed the birth of his siblings, James, Jana and Jeff. After enough cold weather the family moved to Rancho Palos Verdes in 1966.

From the start Mike was an athlete. Mike took to baseball, surfing, basketball, pop warner football, anything and everything competitive. He continued to excel academically and athletically at Rolling Hills High School from 1967 – 1971. He lettered in three sports, but his passion was football. In his junior and senior years, Mike was one of the most sought after and highly recruited high school football players. He ultimately accepted a full scholarship to play football for the University of Oregon in 1971. For those who knew Mike well there are two things you know: he was a lifelong Rolling Hills Titan and Oregon Duck. He played for Oregon three years before a debilitating injury that put him on the sidelines. Among a rare few, Mike had the heart and God-given talent to make it to the pros. His nickname was “Rhino,” because he was big, strong, fast, and feared—no one wanted to take a punishing hit from him. He cracked more than one guy’s helmet playing football. Evident to those who knew him best, Mike majored in History and his education continued well after college. Mike was a veracious reader who could cite facts from Roman Empire to present, and in context.

In 1974, Mike had his first child, Jesse Simon. Mike then married the love of his life, Elizabeth Witous (née Zeisler), in 1979 and together they welcomed their first child Jessica into the world in 1981. Their second daughter, Jackie, was born in 1987, followed by Jillian in 1989. His girls were his world. He was a loyal husband, father, and protector. And this love extended to his grandchildren, Jamison, Penelope, and Riley. Mike was an entertainer. In addition to his notorious off-color jokes, he kept the girls and others captivated with his storytelling. Many of his stories were told with great passion and a good deal of embellishment, or what the Witous family affectionately calls “the Joanie Factor.” He never let the facts get in the way of telling a good story, and he was happy to recycle pieces of different stories and splice them into Mike Witous originals.

Mike spent over three decades in the aluminum extrusion industry, exceling to become a National Sales Manager for Sierra Aluminum. He loved the people at his Company, and thrived by building deep, trusting relationships with colleagues and clients alike. He had humility and charisma. Mike never spoke down to anyone and had a connection with executives as well as plant workers on the production line. Some say he could relate better to people in the Plant who made the business work, and that he never took them for granted.

Mike Witous was a gregarious, big-hearted individual who always had a smile on his face. He never complained, looked at what was right versus wrong, found the best in everyone, and would give the shirt off of his back to someone in need—even if it was the only shirt he had. He was selfless, loving, extraordinarily loyal, a great husband, father, grandfather, and brother.

Among many passions, Mike loved building and collecting models. When the girls were younger, he offered to “help” with school projects. This often meant him taking over. His girls got A’s on their California Mission projects that they hardly touched. As for his personal models, these were mainly military focused, including but not limited to aircraft, ships and tanks. Many models he built over the years are enshrined at Naval, Marine Corps and Air Force Bases, Army forts, and museums. He loved his pals in the Temecula Valley Model Club and Pendleton AMPS, meeting regularly to share knowledge, ideas, strategies, and friendship. He’d host an annual barbecue at his house every October for his fellow model aficionados, some of whom traveled all the way from Europe to attend.

Given the current social distancing actions by the State of California, a memorial service and celebration of life has not yet been scheduled.

Mike’s wishes were to celebrate his life not by sending flowers or mourning, but instead by doing something that has a positive impact on society. He was passionate about helping those less fortunate, and was active in the “Remember the Titans,” Project Shortstop philanthropy. This focuses on underprivileged kids who through “Shortstop” have the opportunity to transcend challenging lives. In honor and memory of Mike, the Charity established the Mike Witous Memorial Scholarship Fund, allowing people to make tax deductible donations at the link below to help kids. In lieu of flowers, and to answer the countless questions about what people can do, please visit the website at the link below. There is a question on the form that asks, “In Honor Of” or “In Memory of,” so select either one and feel free to add your comments. Also, so that the family sees it, please add Elizabeth Witous’ email; ewitous@gmail.com.

https://rememberthetitans2020.mydagsite.com/home

John Michael Witous is survived by his wife, Elizabeth, son Jesse, daughters Jessica, Jackie and Jillian, grandchildren Jamison, Penelope and Riley, son-in-law Tom, daughter-in-law Sarah, siblings Jim, Jana and Jeff, sister-in-law Julie, and brother-in-law Michael.
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The Justiniani clan

Posted at 07:07pm
He will be greatly missed as he treated us like one of his own. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Witous family always. Sending all our love!
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Carolyn Bowling

Posted at 08:19am
Rest in Peace Mike. My dear friend, I can't believe you're gone. Jerry still talks about the Christmas Party at Lyle's house so many years ago when he first met you. He couldn't believe I worked with such a crazy guy, but the two of you clicked that night. My heart is broken that I will never hear your voice again!
I know you have left a wonderful legacy of memories for so many people. May God wrap his arms around your family in comfort. Prayers for your beautiful family!
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Robin Davenport

Posted at 06:34pm
May you rest in peace, Mike. May your family find comfort in their memories. I will miss you and your family at the Duck games. Truly a stand up guy with a heart of gold. You will be missed.
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Steve Nakamoto

Posted at 11:17am
Here's Mike and I in 1965 - Silver Spur Little League All-Stars. Mike was a big kid and was our catcher. I was a medium sized boy and played first base. At the time, this was a huge deal for us. Mike and I always remembered those days. Mike's parents, John and Joanne, were very active in Little League. Joanne used to cook in the snack bar and she was the only one who used to slice the hot dog in half and grill the interior. These are important facts to know!
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Steve Nakamoto

Posted at 11:04pm
My best friend Mike Witous.
I spoke to Mike only 3 weeks ago and it was our usual periodic hello to each. However, he did mention that he met a Japanese American doctor who to our high school. Mike, being his usual easy-going self, never let on that he was that concerned about his procedure. That’s Mike for you…. He never wasted any energy worrying about anything.
And I was always the opposite. And that’s why we were such a good pair growing up in Palos Verdes from 6th grade through high school. And even though we took trip together in college, our best days were our first days together at Ridgecrest Intermediate School and our neighborhood around Mike’s house on Hazelridge Drive.
We watched TV together (Hogan’s Heroes, The Avengers, The Man from U.N.C.L.E.) - went to the movies (Help, The Flight of the Phoenix, The Great Escape) - played basketball, baseball, and football together. Rode bikes to the Peninsula Center – liked the same girls and did all of the Student Council things together. In our own little world, we were sort of like big shots if I may say so myself. Mike would agree.
Mike will always be the friendliest person I have ever known in a genuine way. And while he has known hundreds of people during his brief time here, I know deep inside that he was my best friend and I was his. That’s comforting to know.
Whenever I find myself in an uncomfortable situation again where I should reach out to someone, I’ll “pull a Witous” and be the first one to say “hello” and strike up a friendly conversation. Mike would be happy to know that he was a big influence on me.
Take care my buddy until we meet again.

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